Karma

A World Full of Stars

The way we look at babies changes drastically when we learn to accept reincarnation and karma. The baby that is born to us is not a blank slate, nor is it simply ours – a product of our genetic heritage. Every baby is a person who has a history stretching back to the beginning of humanity at the dawn of time. It’s one thing to touch on this idea and another thing altogether to truly grasp what it means. Who is this person looking out at us from their newborn eyes? Where has this person been since they were last on earth?

Rudolf Steiner says that our souls, our spirits, continue to live amongst the Beings of the Hierarchies (angels, archangels, etc.) between earth lives; we do not die when our physical bodies die. Our bodies are not the whole of us and neither are the stars and planets revealed by our telescopes the whole of them. The cosmos is inhabited by spiritual beings with influences far more important than sunspots or tides or minerals that exist in the “great mechanical processes in the Universe” we’ve discovered. Astronomy does not explain the spiritual forces with which we are connected after we die. When we look at pictures of the earth taken from far away in space, we do not see the hopes and dreams of human beings.

All consciousness extends beyond the physical world.

We need to consider that when we come back through a new birth, we have been shaped and influenced by the Beings of the Cosmos around us. Humanity used to be aware of this; we took for granted that we descended from the heavenly worlds and that we return there after death because we could still experience it. This direct knowledge was lost to us so that we could develop intelligence through our physical senses. Now we must regain our knowledge of the spirit using this earthly intelligence. Neglecting to do this is one of the factors causing the continued decline of earthly culture. We simply cannot know ourselves without knowing the whole of ourselves. We cannot fix things we don’t understand.

Let’s see what Dr. Steiner has to say:

There is a tendency to look back with a certain condescension to “primitive” periods of culture, for instance to the culture of ancient Egypt, when people did not speak of the great mechanical processes in the Universe but of divine Beings outside, in space and beyond space – Beings to whom a person was known to be related just as that person is related to the beings of the three kingdoms of Nature on Earth.

The ancient Egyptians traced the origin of the spirit and soul of the human being to the higher Hierarchies, to supersensible worlds, just as they traced the origin of their material, bodily nature to the mineral, plant and animal kingdoms. In our age, people speak of what is beyond the Earth out of a kind of weak and ever-weakening faith that much prefers to avoid scientific scrutiny. Science speaks only of a great system of world-machinery which can be expressed in terms of mathematics… Earthly existence has finally come to be regarded as confined with the walls of a little molehill in the universe.

Yet there is a profound truth, namely this: When we lose the heavens, we lose ourselves. By far the most important elements of our humanity belong to the universe beyond the Earth and if we lose sight of this universe, we lose sight of our own true being. We wander over the Earth without knowing what kind of being we really are. We know, but even then only from tradition, that the word “human” applies to us, that this name was once given to us as a being who stands upright in contrast to the quadruped animals. But our scientific view of the world and technical culture no longer help us to discover the true content of our name, for that must be sought in the universe beyond the Earth, and this universe is considered to be nothing but a great system of machinery. Humanity has lost itself; it has no longer any insight into its true nature.

A feeling of sadness cannot but overtake us when we realize that the heights of culture to which we have risen since the middle of the fifteenth century have led us to wrench ourselves from our true nature and to live on the Earth divested of soul and spirit…

In the lecture to educationists yesterday, I said that we are prone to speak of only one aspect – and even that merely from tradition – of the eternal being of the human being. We speak of eternity beyond death but not of the eternity stretching beyond birth, nor of how the human being has descended from spiritual worlds into material, physical existence on the Earth… We must find ourselves again and be true to the laws of our innermost being. Interest must be awakened in the whole nature of the human being instead of being confined to its outer, physical sheaths. But this end cannot be achieved until humanity is regarded as belonging not only to the Earth – which is conceived as a little molehill – but to the whole Cosmos, until it is realized that between death and a new birth, we pass through the world of stars to which here on Earth we can only gaze upwards from below. And the living essence, the soul and the spirit of the world of stars must be known once again.

Excerpt from: Cosmic Forces in Man, Lecture 1 by Rudolf Steiner, Nov. 24, 1921. Oslo, Norway.

When we are consciously able to enlarge the human experience to include the cosmos, we see that each of us is much more important than a materialistic point of view permits us to see. Not only do we each carry within us our multitude of our past and future lives, we carry also the time in between our earthly lives where we live in a place much larger than the molehill in which we imagine ourselves, we live among the stars.

That’s where our children have been before they come to us. This is why the newborn child feels holy to us… like a gift from heaven.

A Matter of Life and Death

Would we suffer in anguish when a loved one dies if we knew what awaited them in the spiritual world they are entering? Would we be inconsolable if we knew that they still exist, outside their physical bodies and that we will be reunited with them when we ourselves die?

When we study the human being using our methods of natural science, we have come so far that we can see the moment of conception when the sperm penetrates the egg, and we can see the moment of death when the last breath is exhaled. What natural science cannot see is where the human being is before its conception or after its last breath. Natural science has its limitations, and scientists and philosophers have all come up against the boundaries of our ability to penetrate these realms. With knowledge gained through spiritual science, however, we can experience the facts of our life before birth and after death, and when we open ourselves to the possibility, we can learn these things – we can know these things – so that this larger perspective grants us immeasurable solace.

We restore our reverence for life by understanding the life between death and a new birth. (See links below.)

We have discussed sleep and death, karma and reincarnation, heredity and destiny in several previous posts that provide much more detail than is being provided today. Today, we offer an overview, a framework, of a human life.

Let’s see what Dr. Steiner has to say:

… Sleep is a helpful image for death because during sleep we are also withdrawn from the realm in which our destiny awaits for us. While we are sleeping, events in this realm continue without us, and for a while we have no influence on the course they take. Nevertheless, how we live the next day still depends on the effects of what we did the day before. In reality, our personalities are reembodied anew each morning in the world of our actions. It is as if what we were separated from during the night is spread out around us during the day. The same holds true for the actions we carried out in earlier incarnations. They are bound to us as our destiny … a human spirit can live only in the environment it has created for itself through its own actions. The ongoing course of events sees to it that when I wake in the morning, I find myself in a situation that I myself created the previous day. Similarly, my reincarnating spirit’s relationship to the objects in the surroundings sees to it that I enter an environment corresponding to my actions in the previous life.

From the above, we can form an idea of how the soul is incorporated into the overall organization of a human being. The physical body is subject to the laws of heredity. The human spirit, on the other hand, must reincarnate over and over again, and its law consists in having to carry the fruits of previous lifetimes over into the following ones. Our souls live in the present, although this life in the present is not independent of our previous lives since each incarnating spirit brings its destiny along with it from previous incarnations, and this destiny determines its present life.

What impressions our souls will be capable of receiving, which of our desires can be fulfilled, what joys and sorrows will be our lot, what other human beings we will meet—all this depends on what our actions were like in earlier incarnations of the spirit. People to whom our souls were connected in one lifetime will necessarily encounter us again in a later one because the actions that took place between us must have their consequences. Souls that have once been associated will venture into reincarnation at the same time. Thus, the life of the soul is a product of the spirit’s self-created destiny.

The course of a human life within the framework of life and death is determined in three different ways, and we are also therefore dependent on three factors that go beyond birth and death. The body is subject to the laws of heredity; the soul is subject to self-created destiny, or to use an ancient term, to its karma; and the spirit is subject to the laws of reincarnation or repeated earthly lives. The interrelationship of body, soul and spirit can also be expressed as follows: The spirit is immortal; birth and death govern our bodily existence in accordance with the laws of the physical world; and the life of the soul, which is subject to destiny, mediates between body and spirit during the course of an earthly life.

Excerpt from: Theosophy: An Introduction to the Spiritual Processes in Human Life and in the Cosmos by Rudolf Steiner.

Until we are able to experience the spiritual world, we are confined to the limits of our senses. However, within these limits, we are able to elevate our thinking to understand the concepts of the spiritual world revealed by the initiates who do experience it. Rudolf Steiner is such an initiate; he was especially adept at putting into words what he experienced firsthand in the spiritual realms. He was extremely prolific with more than 6000 books, lectures and essays contained in his complete works.

Below is a list of posts that focus on the questions of sleep and death, karma and reincarnation. Reading the excerpts from Dr. Steiner’s work in each post gives us a glimpse into the processes which are invisible to us but nevertheless exist as facts of life.

Sleep:

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/while-you-were-sleeping;

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/more-sleep;

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/the-stuff-of-dreams;

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/the-final-sleep;

Karma and Reincarnation:

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/love-fate-relationship;

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/causeoreffect;

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/time-after-time;

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/our-last-moment;

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/panorama-of-life;

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/not-so-very-instant-karma;

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/you-cant-always-get-what-you-want;

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/burning-desires;

https://www.whoareyou.blog/blog/our-karma-ourselves;


Insecure

The National Institute of Mental Illness says on its website that 1 in 5 US citizens suffer from mental health issues every year. So, those of us who experience these maladies are definitely not alone. Out of the 332 million people in the US, that’s 66 million. Wow. One of the most prevalent mental illnesses is diagnosed as General Anxiety Disorder or GAD. GAD and depression top the list.

Some of the symptoms that can occur for GAD are listed on the Mayo Clinic website: persistent worrying or anxiety about a number of areas that are out of proportion to the impact of the events; overthinking plans and solutions to all possible worst-case outcomes; perceiving situations and events as threatening, even when they aren’t; difficulty handling uncertainty; indecisiveness and fear of making the wrong decision; inability to set aside or let go of a worry; inability to relax, feeling restless, and feeling keyed up or on edge; and difficulty concentrating, or the feeling that your mind “goes blank.” Of course, there are physical signs like fatigue or trouble sleeping, among others. The two main treatments for GAD are psychotherapy (especially cognitive behavioral therapy) and medications. Many people self-medicate with alcohol or drugs.

What is going on? Rudolf Steiner points to a root of these issues: we have forgotten that we are spiritual beings. In fact, many of us actively reject this core truth of being human. The symptoms listed above are not from bacteria or viruses, they are soul issues that are actively disrupting our lives. The traumatic world humanity has created for us to try to live in may be the catalyst for GAD, but underneath that is the eradication of what we know about the whole human being and its place in the universe. We’ve lost our birthright. If we look at the symptoms once again, we may realize that each one would disappear if we had a sense of security in life, if we knew how we got here and why. We can know this.

Let’s see what Dr. Steiner has to say:

Souls without a rudder, souls without a firm grip on life who feel they do not belong, are numerous in our time. They are for the most part souls who, out of an instinctive need, long for something different from what traditional values can offer, souls who have been searching without finding anything which could give them a feeling of security, of belonging. So, what is lacking, what is it that man needs? What does man need to find a secure path through life?

What he needs above all is a consciousness of belonging within the world. Weakness and inner discontent come from the soul’s feeling of isolation. Life’s greatest question is in fact: Where and how do I fit into the world?

When we turn to natural science to reach a satisfying answer to the question: Where, as a human being, is my place in the world? then, at best, the natural-scientific world view will tell him where his physical body belongs within world evolution as a whole. But the natural-scientific world view has absolutely nothing to say about how man’s soul, let alone spirit, fits into world evolution… (Spiritual science shows) how we are related to the primordial warmth pervaded through and through by the individual beings of the Hierarchies who are still about us. We are placed within a cosmos filled with soul and spirit.

Spiritual science shows our soul and spirit to be part and parcel of a universal all. It is a science that can describe the universal all in detail. Thus, spiritual science alone can give the human soul a context without which it feels annihilated. The dissatisfaction and insecurity felt by modern man reflect modern thinking. This thinking disregards the soul and declares that only the human body exists within the cosmic all. Another aspect is that the soul feels it has nothing to relate to, and that prevents it from finding inner strength. To reach inner strength of soul one must have attained concepts and ideas which depict the cosmic all as containing man as a being of soul and spirit; just as natural science depicts physical man as part of the physical evolution of the universe.

Excerpt from: Karma of Materialism, Lecture II by Rudolf Steiner, Berlin Aug. 7, 1917

We should not abandon natural scientific thinking but rather permeate it with spiritual thinking. Without going into details about society’s ills, which seem impossibly complicated and hopeless, we can imagine that a kind of thinking imbued with spiritual science would prove a crucial alliance to natural science in all our endeavors. Try to imagine the world-changing impact of scientists, doctors, teachers, economists, farmers, etc., whose thinking embraces our place in the spiritual world.

Try to imagine the life-changing impact this thinking would have for each of us. We owe it to ourselves to recognize that being human is so much more than being a physical body. We are soul/spiritual beings residing in human bodies. We can know little about ourselves if we refuse to recognize that fact. The soul ailments we suffer can be cured by the spirit, but to know the spirit, in addition to studying spiritual science, we must quiet our minds daily… not an easy task, but it is a way to open the door to the spiritual world.

Not that long ago, meditation wasn’t taken seriously in Western cultures, but it is now. Just last week (Nov. 9, 2022) a study found that a daily mindfulness meditation practice is as effective as escitalopram, the “gold-standard” drug used in treating anxiety... and meditation is free.

Mental Health Statistics >

Mayo Clinic: Generalized Anxiety Disorder >



Looking Back

Seven months ago (Why Bother, Sept. 2021) we noted a time when humankind experienced spiritual beings as a matter of course, as part of their everyday life. In other posts, we’ve talked about angels and archangels as those beings in the spiritual hierarchies that are closest to us. Somehow, though, accepting the idea of karma and reincarnation has been easier for many of us than the idea of beings who exist outside our physical senses. What changed?

All cultures have origin stories. No culture was godless at its roots. Why? Though we may be tempted to call the people of our ancient past childlike or gullible, if we focused only on their achievements in astronomy, we would have to admit someone was thinking albeit quite differently. We were those people back then, and we changed. Over the course of centuries, our pursuit of knowledge stopped aiming toward the spiritual world and focused almost entirely upon the natural world we can observe through our senses. Since the spiritual world cannot be experienced with our senses, we lost our connection with it.

Let’s see what Dr. Steiner has to say:

… We must turn our gaze again and again to the particular mental condition of civilized mankind which began with the blossoming forth of the Natural Sciences and reached its climax in the nineteenth century.

One should place the character of this age vividly before the soul’s eye, comparing it with that of preceding ages. In all ages of the conscious evolution of mankind, Knowledge was regarded as that which brings man to the world of Spirit. To Knowledge, man ascribed whatever relationship to Spirit he possessed. Art and Religion were none other than the living life of Knowledge.

All this became different when the age of the Spiritual Soul* began to dawn (1400s). With a very great part of the life of the human soul, Knowledge now concerned itself no more. Henceforth, it sought to investigate that relation to existence which man unfolds when he directs his senses and his intellectual judgment to the world of ‘Nature.’ It no longer wanted to concern itself with that which man unfolds as a relation to the world of Spirit, when he uses—not his outer senses—but his inner power of perception.

Thus there arose the necessity to connect the spiritual life of man, not with any living present Knowledge, but with Knowledge gained in the past—with Tradition.

The life of the human soul was rent in twain. On the one hand there stood before man the new science of Nature, striving ever onward and unfolding in the living present. On the other side there was the experience of a relation to the spiritual world, for which the corresponding Knowledge had arisen in the ages past. All understanding of how the Knowledge, corresponding to this side of human experience, had been gained in ages past, was gradually lost. Men possessed the Tradition, but they had lost the way by which the truths of Tradition had been known—discovered. All they could do now was to believe in the Tradition.

A man who had consciously reflected on the spiritual situation, say about the middle of the nineteenth century, would have been bound to admit: mankind has come to a point where it no longer feels itself capable of evolving any Knowledge beyond that science which does not concern itself with the Spirit. Whatever can be known about the Spirit, a humanity of earlier ages was able to investigate and discover, but the human soul has lost the faculty for such discovery.

But men did not place before themselves the full bearing of what was taking place. They were content to say: Knowledge simply does not reach out into the spiritual world. The spiritual world can only be an object of Faith.

Letter from: Anthroposophical Leading Thoughts: The Apparent Extinction of Spirit-Knowledge in Modern Times, by Rudolf Steiner, March 25, 2025. Dornach, Switzerland.

For years now, those who accept a spiritual world, a world they can accept on faith alone, are seen as misguided if not pathetic by many of their peers. Yet faith and tradition play a big role in science, too. For example, cosmology assumes that the speed of light and the laws of gravity are constants throughout the universe, so we make all sorts of theories based on these assumptions. But what if they aren’t universal? Maybe all our ideas about the natural world are theoretical.

At our current stage of evolution, we need to pursue knowledge of the spiritual world once again purposefully—out of freedom—to understand ourselves as whole human beings. “What in earlier times was known instinctively must now be acquired by conscious effort.” (Steiner) This knowledge, once acquired, will augment what we have learned in all fields of the natural world.

In future posts, we will continue to investigate the other beings inhabiting the spiritual world including those beings who are determined to lead us into error. We need to realize we are not alone, and now more than ever it is necessary to understand who we’ve been, who we are, and who we may become.


*Spiritual Soul is a stage of human development preceded by that of the Sentient Soul (our lower soul nature) and then the Intellectual Soul (higher soul nature). We will talk more of this in subsequent posts. Or, if you can’t wait, please read the book: Theosophy, Chapter entitled: The Essential Nature of the Human Being.

Love/Fate Relationship Redux

In January of 2020, Love/Fate Relationship began its journey to become the most widely read post since I began the blog. It has over 3.5 times as many views as the next most viewed post and is largely responsible for gathering viewers from 70 countries. In light of this, and because it’s the 3-year anniversary of Who Are You?, I decided to repost it.  

Why do we love the people we love? It isn’t always due to common interests because sometimes we are drawn to people before we even know what their interests are, and we certainly aren’t drawn to everyone who shares our interests. Conversely, sometimes we know right away that we don’t like someone. We might say we have a gut feeling, but do we understand the origin of such a feeling? Probably not. So what’s going on?

Perhaps the whole phenomena is like consciousness itself: unable to be explained within the confines of our rational mind but rather must be considered with spiritual ideas.

Maybe it’s fate or karma that draws us to those we love. We are all familiar with the word karma; it’s an old Sanskrit term dating back before 1500 BCE and recognized as a universal law in both Hinduism and Buddhism. Karma connotes both action and result. We use it mostly when we consider good deeds that result in good fortune or the opposite, bad deeds that result in less favorable results. We will try to use this word more broadly to consider what it is that attracts or repels us from the people we feel strongly about.

Let’s see what Dr. Steiner* has to say:

Necessity and freedom interweave in our destiny… We meet some human being. As a rule, the fact that we have met him is enough in itself; we accept life as it comes without being very observant or giving it much thought. But deeper scrutiny of individual human life reveals that when two persons meet, their paths have been guided in a remarkable way. Think of two individuals, one aged twenty-five and the other aged twenty, who meet; they can look back over the course of their lives hitherto and it will be evident to each of them that every single happening in the life of the one, say the twenty-year-old, had impelled him from quite a different part of the world to this meeting, at this particular place, with the other. The same will be true of the twenty-five-year-old. In the forming of destiny very much depends upon the fact that human beings, starting from different parts of the world, meet as though guided by an iron necessity directly to that meeting-point. No thought is given to the wonders that can be revealed by studies of this kind, but human life is infinitely enriched by insight into such situations and impoverished without it.

If we begin to think about our relationship to some human being whom we seem to have met quite by accident, we shall have to say to ourselves that we had been looking for him, seeking for him, ever since we were born into this earthly existence… and as a matter of fact, even before then. But I do not want to go into that at the moment. We need only remind ourselves that we should not have come across this individual if at some earlier point in earthly life we had taken only a slightly different direction to the left or to the right and had not gone the way we did. As I said, people do not give any thought to these matters. But it is sheer arrogance to believe that something to which one pays no attention is non-existent. It is a fact and will eventually reveal itself to observation.

There is, however, a significant difference between what takes place before the actual meeting of two individuals and what takes place from that moment onwards. Before they met in earthly life, they had influenced each other without having any knowledge of the other’s existence. After the meeting the mutual influence continues, but now they know each other. And this again is the beginning of something extremely significant… What occurs between two human beings before they become acquainted can only be regarded as the outcome of iron necessity and what happens afterwards as the expression of freedom, of mutually free relationship and behavior.

Excerpt from: Karmic Relationships: Esoteric Studies, Vol. VI, Lecture given in Berne, Switzerland, January 25, 1924 by Rudolf Steiner. [See note at end of post.]

The above passage from Steiner’s lecture on karmic relationships asks our acceptance of the idea of karma in terms of our relationships to others. If we can entertain such an idea, we must ask whether all karma is just personal? Do we deserve to meet our soul mate – interesting term – or to meet an arch enemy? Based on what? What does Steiner mean by iron necessity guiding us toward certain people? Questions such as these expose us to some of the deep mysteries of our lives.

When we contemplate the people we know in our lives, we can easily recognize those with whom we feel a deeper (karmic) relationship, whether it’s good or bad, and those with whom we feel but a passing relationship. We can trace the events that brought us into the lives of those we care about. We can marvel at the multitude of decisions we (and they) made that resulted in our meeting each other. Enjoy the beautiful complexity of our lives as a welcoming first step toward understanding the bigger picture of karma.

* See Having an Openness of Mind in sidebar.

“Is Love at First Sight Real?”
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201801/is-love-first-sight-real?amp

Dr. Steiner’s gave his lectures on karmic relationships the year before he died, and they are arranged in eight volumes. Eight volumes! While extensive, these books by no means cover all Steiner had to say about karma. For example, the two posts appearing after Love/Fate Relationship have different sources. One is Theosophy, a book rather than a series of lectures. This introductory book gives us an overview of Steiner’s spiritual science and is a great place to start researching spiritual science in earnest. The state of the world begs us to understand our purpose for being, and Steiner’s insights provide us with a means for that understanding.  




Hanging in the Balance

Some people find validity for their own views by deeming as good those who agree with them and evil those who disagree with them. These terms, strong as they are, become meaningless or even laughable when they are applied so indiscriminately. But these terms are not meaningless in the cosmic order. In fact, without both good and evil, humanity would never develop free will.

When we look back to civilizations from Egypt to the present, we find abundant evidence of humankind’s endeavor to understand its place between heaven and hell. Before that, humanity had an instinctive clairvoyance; we didn’t have to believe in spiritual beings, we experienced them. This state of being did not cultivate free will. With the consciousness we’ve developed since then, we don’t directly experience the spirit, nor are we are likely to believe in things simply because an authority has told us what to believe. Our thinking of today, based on logic and reason, demands an approach to the concepts of good and evil that makes sense, especially if we hope to incorporate these concepts into our understanding of karma and reincarnation.

Karma is continually playing out so that we can fix our error (evil) in order purify our souls, to evolve as souls, to become good. If we are willing to identify a virtue as being good, our natural inclination is to identify the opposite of that virtue as evil. So, for example, we could say that courage is good, so cowardice is evil. But it is more complicated than that. Aristotle said, “Virtue is a human capacity or skill guided by reason and insight, which, as regards man, hold the balance between the too-much and the too-little.” What does he mean?

Let’s see what Dr. Steiner has to say:

… The pupils of the Mysteries were shown that free will can only be developed if a person is in a position to go wrong in one of two directions; further, that life can only run its course truly and favorably when these two lines of opposition are considered as being like the two sides of a balance, of which first one side and then the other goes up and down. True balance only exists when the crossbeam is horizontal. They were shown that it is impossible to express the true attitude of man by saying; this is right and that is wrong. It is only possible to gain the true idea when the human being, standing in the center of the balance, can be swayed each moment of his life, now to one side, now to the other, but he himself holds the correct mean between the two.

Let us take the virtue valor, bravery. In this respect human nature may diverge on one side to foolhardiness—that is, unbridled activity in the world and the straining of the forces at one’s disposal to the utmost limit. Foolhardiness is one side; the opposite is cowardice. A person may turn the scale in either of these directions.

In the Mysteries the pupils were shown that when a man degenerates into foolhardiness, he loses himself and lays aside his own individuality and is crushed by the wheels of life. Life tears him in pieces if he errs in this direction, but if, on the other hand, he errs on the side of cowardice, he hardens himself and tears himself away from his connection with beings and objects… the pupils were told that goodness cannot merely be striven for as goodness obtained once and for all; rather does goodness come only through man being continually able to strike out in two directions like a pendulum and by his own inner power able to find the balance, the mean between the two.

You have in this all that will enable you to understand the freedom of the will and the significance of reason and wisdom in human action. If it were fitting for man always to observe the eternal moral principles, he need only acquire these moral principles and then he could go through life on a definite line of march, as it were, but life is never like this.

Freedom in this consists rather in man’s being always able to err in one direction or another. But in this way the possibility of evil arises. For what is evil? It is that which originates when the human being is lost to the world or the world is lost to him. Goodness consists in avoiding both these extremes. In the course of evolution, evil became not only a possibility, but an actuality; for as man journeyed from incarnation to incarnation, by his turning now to one side and now to the other, he could not always find the balance at once, and it was necessary for the compensation to be karmically made at a future time.

Excerpt from: Anthroposophical Ethics, Lecture III by Rudolf Steiner. May 30, 1912. Norrkoping.

If we sit with this for just a moment, we can see how this way of looking at good and evil helps us to become less judgmental of others – instead of being evil, they are off balance. It helps us be less judgmental of ourselves, too. In a way, we can see that we already possess the virtue; however, we may have too much or too little of it. We must swing to the other side to become more centered.

As we explore this method of viewing virtue or good as the mean between two extremes, we find a practical way to work on ourselves. For example, we may admire someone we know who always keeps their temper, who exhibits the virtue of patience. By placing patience as a mean between its two extremes—its deficiency is irascibility, and its excess is apathy—we can see which side of the scale we tip to and work toward the center. Likewise with all the virtues. Here is the spiritual work/life balance.




Love/Fate Relationship

Why do we love the people we love? It isn’t always due to common interests because sometimes we are drawn to people before we even know what their interests are, and we certainly aren’t drawn to everyone who shares our interests. Conversely, sometimes we know right away that we don’t like someone. We might say we have a gut feeling, but do we understand the origin of such a feeling? Probably not. So what’s going on?

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Perhaps the whole phenomena is like consciousness itself: unable to be explained within the confines of our rational mind but rather must be considered with spiritual ideas.

Maybe it’s fate or karma that draws us to those we love. We are all familiar with the word karma; it’s an old Sanskrit term dating back before 1500 BCE and recognized as a universal law in both Hinduism and Buddhism. Karma connotes both action and result. We use it mostly when we consider good deeds that result in good fortune or the opposite, bad deeds that result in less favorable results. We will try to use this word more broadly to consider what it is that attracts or repels us from the people we feel strongly about.

Let’s see what Dr. Steiner* has to say:

Necessity and freedom interweave in our destiny… We meet some human being. As a rule, the fact that we have met him is enough in itself; we accept life as it comes without being very observant or giving it much thought. But deeper scrutiny of individual human life reveals that when two persons meet, their paths have been guided in a remarkable way. Think of two individuals, one aged twenty-five and the other aged twenty, who meet; they can look back over the course of their lives hitherto and it will be evident to each of them that every single happening in the life of the one, say the twenty-year-old, had impelled him from quite a different part of the world to this meeting, at this particular place, with the other. The same will be true of the twenty-five-year-old. In the forming of destiny very much depends upon the fact that human beings, starting from different parts of the world, meet as though guided by an iron necessity directly to that meeting-point. No thought is given to the wonders that can be revealed by studies of this kind, but human life is infinitely enriched by insight into such situations and impoverished without it.

If we begin to think about our relationship to some human being whom we seem to have met quite by accident, we shall have to say to ourselves that we had been looking for him, seeking for him, ever since we were born into this earthly existence… and as a matter of fact, even before then. But I do not want to go into that at the moment. We need only remind ourselves that we should not have come across this individual if at some earlier point in earthly life we had taken only a slightly different direction to the left or to the right and had not gone the way we did. As I said, people do not give any thought to these matters. But it is sheer arrogance to believe that something to which one pays no attention is non-existent. It is a fact and will eventually reveal itself to observation.

There is, however, a significant difference between what takes place before the actual meeting of two individuals and what takes place from that moment onwards. Before they met in earthly life, they had influenced each other without having any knowledge of the other’s existence. After the meeting the mutual influence continues, but now they know each other. And this again is the beginning of something extremely significant… What occurs between two human beings before they become acquainted can only be regarded as the outcome of iron necessity and what happens afterwards as the expression of freedom, of mutually free relationship and behavior.

Excerpt from: Karmic Relationships: Esoteric Studies, Vol. VI, Lecture given in Berne, Switzerland, January 25, 1924 by Rudolf Steiner.

The above passage from Steiner’s lecture on karmic relationships asks our acceptance of the idea of karma in terms of our relationships to others. If we can entertain such an idea, we must ask whether all karma is just personal? Do we deserve to meet our soul mate – interesting term – or to meet an arch enemy? Based on what? What does Steiner mean by iron necessity guiding us toward certain people? Questions such as these expose us to some of the deep mysteries of our lives.

When we contemplate the people we know in our lives, we can easily recognize those with whom we feel a deeper (karmic) relationship, whether it’s good or bad, and those with whom we feel but a passing relationship. We can trace the events that brought us into the lives of those we care about. We can marvel at the multitude of decisions we (and they) made that resulted in our meeting each other. Enjoy the beautiful complexity of our lives as a welcoming first step toward understanding the bigger picture of karma.

* See Having an Openness of Mind in sidebar.

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